The more mature you are, the more life tests you will encounter. For you to successfully undergo the process of self-maturity, you must live by holding on to principles. Now here are six principles that you must hold forever when you grow older.
- Think to be thing
Everyone must have a desire to be happy. You are no exception. Actually the recipe for being happy is quite simple. If you want to be happy, think like a happy person, if you want to be successful, think like a successful person. Because actually everything that you experience comes from what you think, comes from the intention that is in your mind. So if you want to be happy hold this principle ‘think to be thing’.
- Building up negative thoughts is like swallowing poison
Skeptics, complaining, low self-esteem, fear, surrender, pessimism and various negative thoughts that fill your brain and heart are the same as poison that settles in your heart. And if the poisons you leave will kill you mentally longer.
For that, if your heart is still filled with various negative thoughts, now is the time for you to get rid of these bad thoughts.
Practice not complaining, dare to face risks and dare to say ‘I can.’ Then the poisons that settle in your heart will be detoxified by the positive thoughts that you instill.
- Live what you fear so that fear will disappear Everyone has fear. You certainly have fears. It is humane, but don’t let your fear hold you back. And one way to overcome your fear is to live it. When you are afraid to talk then talk and when you have spoken you will forget your fear. Likewise with your other fears.
- Face the challenges you meet, the challenges will be a bridge to your success. Indeed the difficulties and challenges you face indirectly give you the opportunity to become a formidable person. And, the more problems you face and solve, the more resilient you are.
So, from now on if you are still lulled by ease and continue to avoid difficulties then get out of the comfort zone. Because actually avoiding problems will only keep you from developing. Dare yourself to face every difficulty that you encounter with such difficulties will be a bridge to achieving your goals.
- You live in the present
You can’t let yourself be trapped in your past. You also cannot allow yourself to be trapped by your future dreams. Make the past as a lesson and the future as a plan. Do not be immersed in the sadness you have received in the past, do not also be impressed with the success that you have achieved in the past.
Eliminate your worries in the future. Live what you are able to live today! Do not delay, because time passes by faster. Keep in mind your principle ‘today must be better than yesterday and tomorrow must be better than this’.
- Before trusting others. The first person you must trust is yourself. Other people always have the possibility to betray the trust you give them, but you will not betray the trust you give yourself. Therefore, before you put your trust in others, the first person you must trust is yourself.
After you trust yourself completely you can put your trust in other people.
Now you know, the principle of life that you must hold with the increasing number of tests that you face in the process of maturing yourself.
So what are you waiting for, hold on to the principles of life that have been mentioned above, so that you are able to go through the various test obstacles that you will face later