Friendship relations have indeed become inherent things for humans, who are social creatures by nature. Every person has friends. Friendships are built because each individual has the same interests or also a frequency with their friends. Examples such as the same interests, the same goals, the same frequency, the same problems, and many more. Friendship also has stages, such as the stage of being limited to just getting to know and addressing greetings to the stage of being a friend who really shows each other the true image of a sahabt.
But behind the course of their friendship, of course, they cannot be separated from conflicts or problems that can lead to the breakdown of their friendship. Moreover, not all conflicts or problems can be easily resolved. Therefore, to prevent conflicts and maintain friendship, several things are needed, namely to get to know our friends further so that they know what they like and which they don’t.
Here are some tips for maintaining your friendship:
Communication is the main factor for friendship to last, last, and avoid conflict. Sometimes the situation does not always support us to always meet. But this is where we need to know and be aware, at least you have to contact your friends if you will be busy for some time. If you can’t meet face to face, you can do it by phone. This needs to be done so that your friends know the situation you are in right now, and prevent them from worrying. Don’t hesitate to share stories with friends who are considered close, if there is something upland about your friend, tell it as honestly as possible. Because if you don’t tell him, it will irritate your heart and mind so that you unconsciously start to keep going with your friends. So prioritize communication with your friends.
- Send You Greetings
Copy of greetings is also an important thing in maintaining friendships. You should greet your friends when you meet at the same place. Don’t you ever ignore it, you need to know that your friends might see you in that place but because you look away they will think that you don’t like it. Not only face to face, but also online media, make sure you greet your friends. This shows that you are really happy to be friends with him. So make sure you fight the same as your friends.
- Dont Be Hard On Friend
Do not behave casually with your friends, even if your friendship lasts quite a while and you know each other, keep your behavior with your friends. Even if you think that you know your friend more than anyone else, it’s best to get rid of that mindset. Your friends also have their own privacy, and you shouldn’t interfere with your friends. Don’t force your friend to do whatever you want, just let him choose.
- Take Advantage Of Big Events
The advantages referred to here are not included in the negative things. The advantage of this big pickle means to give the best you can for your theme on an important day. For example, like his birthday, you can give him a little surprise, it doesn’t have to be fancy, the important thing is that you show that you care by remembering his birthday. Then on Valentine’s Day, Christmas Day, or other special days. At least send him a greeting. After that, if your friend participates in the competition and wins, don’t forget to give him congratulations, and sincere support for your friend. Even though this sounds simple, it can make your friends feel very happy because they feel cared for and cared for, So don’t ever forget this one thing.
Here is a way to maintain your friendship, this text may not be perfect but at least it will help you remember the small but meaningful things to your friends. Thank you for reading.
Name : Isdianti Permata Putri
Class : XII Social 2