Have you felt alone? Have you felt like everybody didn’t want to be your friend? Its called lonely, due to lack of sensitivity of surrounding environment. Its same like shame and other symptoms of introvert characters. introvert is a person who has difficult problem with their social interactions and they are literally don’t care about their environment. Some of them actually want to leave their introvert zone, but its hard, very hard. How to leave the introvert zone? Here is tips for you to leave the introvert zone.
1. Find Another Perspective
First, you must find another perspective. Some introvert people felt uncomfortable when they are in the crowd. They prefer to go and be alone from the crowd, so that they are lazy to interactive with the environment. Do something new, try to say hello to other. They are not the same as you imagine, not all people will ignore you when you do something like that. Your environment will do the same thing if you do the good thing. Believe that you got a positive thing from them.
2. Create A Relationship with New People.
Learn to be the person who needs to communicate with the outside world. Different from your past attitude where prefer to go and be alone. Look for fun with other like asking people to joke or talks that can lead a happiness. Find the person you’re talking to about anything, so that you and your friendship can be formed.
3. Open Yourself
Sometimes, we feel there are not people that we can believe in this world. This shouldn’t make you clossed, the world really isn’t fair. If you not found people that you can believe, at least you can be the one. Try to open yourself, maybe you can help other. No matter if they are mean to you, but you must be good to them.
4. Learn from The Environment
Environment that you’ve been ignoring, actually have a miracle. Maybe you don’t see it. To find it, you must be in it. Be the person who creates miracles by creating goodness. Unexpected thing will come to you when there are so many people that you make happy.
5. Invite Other Introverts
if you have passed all of the above, share your experience about how to be someone who be brave to open up. You have passed a hard time, don’t let other people to experience the same thing. Invite them with you. Embrace them until they are happy.
If you save this thing, will make you have many friends and far from being lonely. People won’t judge you as someone who doesn’t care anything. They will be your friends. Keep confidence and be a goodness.
Writer : Haryo Gigih Pamungkas And Sindi Mulia (XII MIPA 7)