Have you ever felt confused about starting a conversation? Here. I’ll give you some tips.
4 steps to make small talks with anyone who you meet in first time.
1. Grease the wheels early with compliment
It will helps you to have a positive vibe in conversation. “you look good”, “that dress are suits you well”, “those pairs of shoes are so beautiful, like it’s belong to.” Don’t compliment too much. If you too agressive, that person who you try to talk to are kinda feel scared. DON’T SCARED THE PERSON YOU’VE MEET FOR THE FIRST TIME.
2. Transition the topics using “remind me of” thinking.
After you complimenting her/him, go like this “your hair are so beautiful, it’s remind me of Rapunzell. Well, you look like her, beautiful.” then the girls gonna talk much about her hair. You got a new topic to longer your conversation!
3. Get other people exited about the conversation. Using ‘why’ question.
You can ask them about their favorites, you can see it from the item they brings. Phonecase, keychain, bag. It gonne be like :
A : “Oh, do you know NCT?”
B : “Of course. I went to their concert.”
A : “YOU DID?”
B : “I did.”
A : “So how’s Taeyong looks likes in real life? You saw him?”
B : “Actually, it’s online concert, so…”
A : “Oh..”
B : “….”
A : “So why you like them?”
B : “Because….”
Let her/him telling you.
4. Create a connection with people while listening.
You can make that connection with give some reactions. You can laugh, impressive, gave a clap(s) or anything else. You have to give the positive reaction.
When she/he tells you about her/his story :
B : “I watched their youtube everyday.”
A : “NCT youtube?”
B : “Yes. Until now. Until i can speak korean because of that.”
A : “You can speak korean just watched youtube?”
B : “Yes.”
A : “That’s amazing tho.”
New topic. Nice.
You have to try this with full of courtesy. Although they can be older or younger than you. DON’T SCARED OR FELT INSECURE. You must be scared that the person gonna ignores you right?
Then do it properly, full of courtesy and don’t forget to smile.